While studies show about only 8% of people stick with their new year's resolution, some years I have been in that 8% while many other years I have fallen out of it. (Check out this post here as a prime example!) I am proud to say that I am nearly finished last year's resolution (was preempted due to being pregnant with #TeamOlivier), so I'm considering myself back in the 8%. Back to this year though...thinking of one word that I could stick to being better at or changing throughout the year and all I could think of was ME. My resolution is going to be all about ME.
It sounds selfish of sorts I'm sure, but this year I am going to start putting me first more often. Ever since becoming a mother almost 3 years ago, I haven't been the number one person I worry about. I moved farther down the list last year when #TeamOlivier was born and now I think I'm in a position to be number 1 again. I watch as DH has been off with the little ones for almost 7 months now and how he has managed to still put his needs out there while the kids are still fed and played with, the house gets tidied and he manages to get out to do the things he loves. I figure, why can't I?!
In many of my brain whirls over the last few days I've been thinking what I want to happen by focusing on me. I want to get back into the pre-baby shape I was in (best shape of my life by the way!); I want to make time to go out with my friends on a regular basis (drinking wine in a trendy restaurant sans kids was amazing!); I want to go for a massage more often (that's why we have benefits right?!); I want to do things with my kids my DH thinks are silly or unimportant, but that will make me feel like a good parent.
All of this to say, I have started the first 3 days off well. I have been able to workout everyday so far and have taken #TeamAmelie out just the two of us to play in the snow. Although, I have been unable to put myself first in terms of just letting the kids play so I could get some school work done, I don't regret playing Mr. Potato Head or watching Finding Nemo with them.
Also as a part of my resolution, I want to find me time to do more writing. There are always a 1000 +1 things swirling in my head, yet I don't get any of them out. (Thought in my head right now: "Wow, you're ambitious...when per say are you finding all this time?!)
So, here's to 2016 and more of ME. If you had to have a one-word resolution what would it be? Why?
Sunshine & happiness, today & forever!